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Dear Miss Wise,
 
I don't like my brother's fiancee. My husband invited them to dinner tomorrow night, and I was wondering if I should bring it up to my brother. I have tried my best to like her, but she is too overbearing, and bossy with my brother.
 
Sincerily,
Protective Sissy
Oakland, Ca
 
 
 
Dear Protective,
 
I would advise against saying anything to your brother. This is the woman he loves and has chosen to marry. I'm sure your opinion of her matters a lot to him. If you tell him you don't like her, you may end up making him feel torn in the short run, and alienated in the long run. Maybe your brother likes to be controlled. Some people preffer to let others do thier thinking for them, and seek out mates who will do this. I suggest you treat her like she is an old highschool friend, and  like you like her, and maybe some day she will show you her good side, (even if it takes years, everyone has one,) and you will like her. Even if you don't, at least you won't hurt your brother by pretending. Where if you say something you will for sure. 
 
Sincerily,
 Miss Wise 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
Dear Miss Wise,
 
My son stopped talking to me three months ago because he doesn't understand why I am divorcing his mother. She cheated, and lied, and treated me like dirt for the last two years. When I was finally fed up I asked for a divorce. When my 26 year old son found out he was angry with me, and has refused to talk to me, return my phone call or even hear my side of things. I don't really want to tell him what his mother did, because he loves her and it would hurt him terribly. Do you have any suggestions?
 
Very Truely,
A Forgotten Father
 
 
 
Dear Forgotten,
 
It's too bad about your marriage. Since he won't talk to you or return your calls. The only thing I can suggest is a face to face. If there is someone he trusts that would be willing to set up a face to face... that may work. You could also try emails and hand written letters. As for what to say when you get him to listen... you may have to tell him the truth. If it was the only way to salvage your relationship with your son. I would say wait until he gets over it and he'll come around, but three months is a bit long. Tell him that you are his father above all else and his mother hurt you so deeply that the only way to repair your soul was to forge a new life on your own without her. I hope he understands. Good Luck! Keep me informed and let me know if you need any more advise.
 
 
Sincerily,
Miss Wise